It is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those differences.
– Audre Lorde
In my work with couples I strive to make space for both partners to feel seen, understood and supported. Using a direct but compassionate approach, I help couples learn to better locate and articulate their own feelings so that they can be better understood by each other. I also encourage taking ownership of one’s needs and feelings, helping clients to become less bashful about desires and requests. I particularly enjoy working with folks who want help with issues around sex and intimacy and couples who identify as sexual outsiders. I have a high comfort level in talking about sex and believe that by creating a place to safely explore boundaries and desires we are better able to have healthy, safe connections with others.
I work with couples to address issues such as:
Intimacy Communication LGBTQIA Sexuality and Sexual Differences Gender Transitions BDSM, Kink and DS Polyamory Trust Building and Strengthening Relationships Commitment Body Image Issues Setting Healthy Boundaries and Codependency Grief and Loss Family Conflict Life Transitions Chronic Illness Sexual Abuse Trauma Anxiety and Depression Identity Issues Self-Criticism and Self-Esteem Impact of Oppression and Marginalization Infidelity Starting a Family Ending a Relationship Coping Skills Mindfulness